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Upcoming Meetings

Finding Your Really Great Woman [Part 4] – What You need to know about Borderline Personality Disorder
Oct 28, 2025 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
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+32 people are attending this event.

This weeks discussion is covering really really really wrong women for Nice Guys; women with Borderline Personality Disorder. These discussions are not ...

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Setting the Tone and Leading in Relationships [Nov 2025]
Nov 04, 2025 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
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+30 people are attending this event.

Setting the tone and taking the lead is one of our most talked-about topics at our meetings, as the concept of "leading" is frightening for most Nice Guys who ...

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The Problem with Control and the Power of Letting Go
Nov 11, 2025 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
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+32 people are attending this event.

Nice Guys often struggle in vain, trying to control every outcome in their relationships, work, and personal lives, only to feel more stressed and ...

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Past Meetings

Overcoming Your Attachment to Outcome [2025]
May 27, 2025
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+29 people attended this event.

Buddha said that attachment is the cause of all suffering. As part of the Nice Guy covert contracts, they assign outcomes to their actions, even when the two are mutually exclusive. When they don't get the desired outcomes, Nice Guys become ...

How to Stop Obsessing Over a Woman and Take Integrated Action [2025]
May 20, 2025
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+28 people attended this event.

Nice guys often develop crushes, fall in love from afar, and have difficulty letting go of women who flake out on them, getting out of their feminine, and setting the tone. This week, we will talk about why Nice Guys obsess over these women, how ...

Confidence and Self Esteem – The Integrated Man’s Way [2025]
May 13, 2025
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+30 people attended this event.

Nice guys, due to their upbringing usually grow up with poor self-esteem. Even though some of the men we work with have developed the ability to fake confidence, sadly, this doesn't last long. Usually, a life event happens, which in the case of a ...

Obsessive-compulsive tendencies of the Nice Guy [2025]
May 06, 2025
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+29 people attended this event.

This week, we are going to talk about the obsessive-compulsive tendencies of the Nice Guy and why Nice Guys stay stuck in dysfunctional relationships and vocations. While the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) does not list OCD under anxiety ...

Embodying Authenticity: Navigating Life with Purpose and Passion [Authentic Living #4] – [2025]
Apr 29, 2025
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+28 people attended this event.

The discussion on living an authentic life continues. This week, in part four of Authenticity, we are going to talk about Covert Contracts. Breaking free from the nice guy syndrome means challenging every one of your adult and childhood paradigms ...

Weekly meeting information

Our Weekly meetings are held on Tuesday nights (a minimum of 48 weeks per year) 6 - 8 pm via Zoom. They are split into two parts, the check-ins, followed by the presentation and discussion on the topic of the night.

Here you will find the information about our upcoming and past meetings. If you are a community member, you will have access to the presentation notes and recordings.