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Overcoming Your Attachment to Outcome [2026]
May 26, 2026 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
Buddha said that attachment is the cause of all suffering. As part of the Nice Guy covert contracts, they assign outcomes to their actions, even when the ...
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Creating a Purposeful Life (Part 1) 2026
Jun 02, 2026 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
If you are looking for a woman to fill your life and complete you, you will never be whole or happy. A woman can't be the center of your life. She can't ...
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Creating a Purposeful Life (Part 2) 2026
Jun 09, 2026 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
If you are looking for a woman to fill your life and complete you, you will never be whole or happy. A woman can't be the center of your life. She can't ...
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Purpose and Identity – The Keys to an Integrated Life (2026)
Jun 16, 2026 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
Over the course of several years, I have identified the key issues that plague most Nice Guys and keep them stuck in mediocrity. Two of the key issues are a ...
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Rules for Purpose and Passion in Life (2026)
Jun 23, 2026 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
As we move into the second half of the year, it is important to revisit the topic of Purpose and Passion. A lot of people who rely on New Year's resolutions ...
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The Problem with Control and the Power of Letting Go
Nov 11, 2025
Nice Guys often struggle in vain, trying to control every outcome in their relationships, work, and personal lives, only to feel more stressed and disconnected. This week, we’re exploring why so many men feel compelled to control, how these ...
Setting the Tone and Leading in Relationships [Nov 2025]
Nov 04, 2025
Setting the tone and taking the lead is one of our most talked-about topics at our meetings, as the concept of "leading" is frightening for most Nice Guys who spend their lives trying to be different from the controlling men they have heard women ...
Finding Your Really Great Woman [Part 4] – What You need to know about Borderline Personality Disorder
Oct 28, 2025
This weeks discussion is covering really really really wrong women for Nice Guys; women with Borderline Personality Disorder. These discussions are not meant to keep men feeling helpless or rageful towards women because of the bad behavior of a ...
Finding Your Really Great Woman [Part 3] – Choosing Wisely
Oct 21, 2025
For most Nice Guys, if they are with a woman, the minimal basic requirements usually include: She isn't too bad-looking or too fat. She is at least minimally interested in him. And at least in the beginning, she's willing to have sex with ...
Finding Your Really Great Woman [Part 2] – The Makings of a Mature Partner
Oct 14, 2025
There are many wounded people out there. And these wounded people are probably out there wanting to be in a relationship. And that's great. You just don't want to be one of the people that matches up with these wounded people. This week we are ...