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Create the life you were meant to lead

Upcoming Meeting

The Problem with Control and the Power of Letting Go
Nov 11, 2025 | 6:00 p.m., Mountain Time
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+32 people are attending this event.

Nice Guys often struggle in vain, trying to control every outcome in their relationships, work, and personal ...

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Weekly meeting information

Our Weekly meetings are held on Tuesday nights (a minimum of 48 weeks per year) 6 – 8 pm via Zoom. They are split into two parts, the check-ins, followed by the presentation and discussion on the topic of the night.

Here you will find the information about our upcoming and past meetings. If you are a community member, you will have access to the presentation notes and recordings.

Who we are?

Integrated Men is a community focused on empowering men. We are dedicated to providing a safe space for men to learn to let go of the toxic shame that holds them back from achieving their full potential.

While our core principles and values are derived from the teachings of Dr. Robert Glover, we only consider that work as a starting point. We dive into deep work using the works of other great masters of the human mind, heart, and soul like David Deida, David Schnarch, Eckhart Tolle, Brene Brown, Mark Manson, and Ken Wilber, to name a few. As we move towards becoming a true community, we have identified that the true cause of all problems that plague modern men is a lack of clear purpose and passion in life. Members are encouraged to start taking responsibility for their lives and getting their needs met in a healthy way by letting go of toxic shame and learning to communicate effectively.

Additionally, the community strives to help overcome the victim mentality and help foster a sense of personal power. The power comes from the knowledge that the choices you make dictate the life you lead. We take on the activities laid out by Dr. Glover in his book and encourage our members to take action in their lives to regain their personal power. They had chosen to relinquish a power that has always existed within them, hoping it would make life more comfortable for them and make people like them. Unfortunately, it only leads to resentment, and it leads to others around us being resentful of us. We are here to help you along your journey towards true authenticity by guiding you towards recovery from toxic shame, divorce, guilt, fear, and addiction.

“The more we choose to accept responsibility for in our lives, the more power we will exercise over our lives. Accepting responsibility for our problems is the first step to solving them.”

Mark Manson

Upcoming Meetings

The Problem with Control and the Power of Letting Go
Nov 11, 2025
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+32 people are attending this event.

Nice Guys often struggle in vain, trying to control every outcome in their relationships, work, and personal ...

Living Authentically: Aligning Actions with Core Values
Nov 18, 2025
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+30 people are attending this event.

Many men find themselves caught in the trap of people-pleasing, often losing sight of their own values in the ...

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Past Meetings

Setting the Tone and Leading in Relationships [Nov 2025]
Nov 04, 2025
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+30 people attended this event.

Setting the tone and taking the lead is one of our most talked-about topics at our meetings, as the concept of ...

Finding Your Really Great Woman [Part 4] – What You need to know about Borderline Personality Disorder
Oct 28, 2025
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+32 people attended this event.

This weeks discussion is covering really really really wrong women for Nice Guys; women with Borderline ...

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Member Success Story

Just landed a great job with a big pay increase. If it wasn’t for therapy and this group I probably would have never looked at jobs that had that pay increase. I probably would have settled at where I was because previously I didn’t value myself much in my personal or professional life. So thank you so much for this group. It has borne so much good fruit in my life.

Sam – Jun 2022

Annual Summit

Integrated Men
2026 Summit

Join community members for a fun-filled weekend of personal growth

Apr 29 – May 3, 2026

Featured Workshop

Boundaries for Better Relationships
Sep 27, 2025 | 9:00am - 12:00pm, Mountain Time
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+ 20 people are attending this event.

Planning to Attend this Workshop? 1) Please RSVP (Zoom link is only available to members who RSVP). 2) Show up ...

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Who are our members?

Our members come from all walks of life, and all backgrounds. We welcome everyone who wishes to abides by the code of conduct. As long as your intentions are to work on yourself, we will be there to support you through your journey.

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