I joined in 2016 after a bad breakup, looking for answers. While I had support from family, it was mostly sympathy; what I actually needed to grow was honest feedback and accountability. In this group, I found a safe space to open up without the fear of being judged.

The group helped me navigate the dating world again, but it also taught me to recognize ‘Nice Guy’ traps, specifically the habit of taking care of everyone else while my own needs went unmet. I eventually met my wife and got married, but I’ve learned that marriage is a continued work in progress.

Even years later, I continue to get insights on how to navigate life without giving into expectations while ensuring my needs are met.

It is a massive advantage to learn from other men’s mistakes rather than just your own. You should always surround yourself with people who want the best for you, and this group is exactly that