While it’s no substitution for a good therapy session, therapy tends to be more expensive. And generally doesn’t encourage you to stop being a nice guy. And tend to not be hosted in the local bar. So yeah – it’s not at all like group therapy. Instead, you’ll find a great group of guys encouraging each other to go for what they want, teaching methods to avoid toxic patterns of manipulating, and learning how to overcome personal shame and anxiety. So come through the open door, take a seat, and learn how to stop being a nice guy without also being an asshole. (You might worry this group is about becoming mean. But don’t fret – you’re probably already too far on the other side of the nice scale to slide to the other end.)