This week’s discussion is taken from Dr. Glover’s second book, Dating Essentials for Men. It is written for single men, but a lot of its wisdom can be applied to other areas of life and relationships.
Your mind believes what your mind tells itself to be true, and it is wrong more often than not.
Glover says: Most bad daters struggle with issues of self-acceptance and confidence. This lack of self-esteem is the result of “self-limiting beliefs.” He adds that, for bad daters, self-limiting beliefs (i.e., the lies your mind tells you) become self-perpetuating realities that keep them stuck and frustrated. In this meeting, we are going to focus on chapter one, and talk about uncovering and overcoming your self-limiting beliefs about yourself, women, and the world in general. They may cause tremendous inner turmoil for you because they will challenge everything you believe is true. Come prepared to challenge yourself to become more self-aware and self-accepting.
Let’s get together and have a fun discussion about dating and how to use it to uncover and overcome your self-limiting beliefs. We are also going to discuss how you can have fun in the process and stop being attached to an outcome.
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