Feel the Fear and Do What’s Right [2026]
Feel the Fear and Do What’s Right [2026]
Jul 07, 2026 | 5:45 p.m., Mountain Time
Fear tends to permeate many areas of our lives. For example, if you fear making new friends, it stands to reason that you may also fear attending parties, forming intimate relationships, applying for jobs, and so on.
Some fear is instinctual, healthy, and keeps us alert to trouble. The rest – the part that holds us back from personal growth – is inappropriate and destructive, and can perhaps be blamed on our conditioning. We can’t escape fear. We can only transform it into a companion that accompanies us in all our exciting adventures.
Most Nice Guys don’t think of themselves as afraid; they think of themselves as careful, considerate, realistic. But underneath the caution is often a deep, unexamined fear: of rejection, of being found out, of succeeding and losing control, of being truly known.
We’ll look at the difference between surface level fears (the ones tied to specific events) and the deeper ego based fears that actually run the show, and why most of what feels like a “psychological problem” is really an educational one that can be re-learned.
We’ll cover why Nice Guys often fear success as much as failure, how power and love are connected, and why rejection, handled well, is one of the fastest paths to growth rather than something to avoid. You’ll leave with a clearer relationship to fear itself: not as a signal to retreat, but as information you can act on.
The real issue has nothing to do with the fear itself, but rather how we hold the fear. For some, fear is totally irrelevant. For others, it creates a state of paralysis. This week, we’re discussing how to feel the fear and do what’s right.
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