Buddha said that attachment is the cause of all suffering.Robert Glover adds that attachment is also the cause of all anxiety and It can also be a slippery slope toward a loss of integrity. As part of the Nice Guy covert contracts, they assign outcomes to their actions, even when the two are mutually exclusive. When they don’t get the desired outcomes, Nice Guys become resentful and passive-aggressive and switch to a victim mentality. In this discussion we will talk about ways Nice Guys become attached to outcomes in life and in relationships that only serve to increase their suffering. We will also talk about ways to disentangle from such unhealthy attachments and live a life of integrity.
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Our Weekly meetings are held on Tuesday nights (a minimum of 48 weeks per year) 6 - 8 pm via Zoom. They are split into two parts, the check-ins, followed by the presentation and discussion on the topic of the night.
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