Since perfectionism is a deep core issue for most nice guys and most bad daters, it creates all kinds of suffering for nice guys. It creates excessive and ...
Fear tends to permeate many areas of our lives. For example, if you fear making new friends, it then stands to reason that you also may fear going to parties, ...
We usually don't have a regular meeting for this week, but Philip has offered to host a get together at our regular meeting place if folks are interested in joining him. There is no set agenda for this meeting, but if you want to meet with others ...
This will be the last meeting of the year. As we arrive at the summit of yet another year of progress and lessons learned, I would like this time to be used as a time to reflect and look back on the year as we head towards a New Year. Let's talk ...
I am frequently asked, "What's Wrong With Being A Nice Guy?" I respond. Nothing. It's the motivation behind being nice that is in question. Dr. Glover says, "By giving these men the label Nice Guy, I'm not so much referring to their actual behavior, ...
Most of us have had the experience of leaning over and whispering in our lover's ear, "I love you." We then wait expectantly for our beloved to respond with, "I love you too." This is an example of a covert contract in which a person gives to get. ...
Do you have difficulty expressing your feelings, thoughts, and desires? Do you find yourself repressing your anger and resenting it afterward? Do you find yourself being walked on, fearing to stand up for yourself believing you will be rejected or ...